Inertia

Life wouldn't it be much more beautiful if we could take care of those things where we fall short on; not the stuff that is dependent on external factors, but the shortcomings within. Don't exercise, you start exercising the next day. Ain't dilligent about work, you start being the star performer the next day. Can't tell when clothes look good on you and when not, next day you become the style statement around town.



What is it that holds us back, even when we know the answer. Think of your own shortcomings, tellme that you don't know the answer to how to correct them. But do you know what stops you from overcoming them?



Fear?

Habit?

Not enough investment into trying to bring the change?

Too caught up in the rut?

Trying to change too many things simultaneously?



Maybe all of those. Maybe...we're just too used to seeing us as we are that we can't believe we could be something or someone else...someone better...someone we dreamt to grow up to be. Maybe we're afraid that while we're changing people will react weirdly to us, wonder what's wrong, maybe we imagine ourselves as the different person, but we don't imagine what it will take to take us there and hence when the challenges come up...we're not ready.



So let me list a whole lot of things I want to change about myself:

Exercise more regularly

Write, more and varied

Read more

Get work done in time (read concentrate)

Cook



So what's been holding me back...a missing drive...to go take on the world and say I am the conqueror. Well tell you what, I don't know what challenges lie ahead, what challenges from the past shall show their faces again, but I hope that 2011 shall see me taking them on with a shinier sword. What more...I hope the new year sees you ready for your battles too :)

...and hope you have a happy time...after all what's a destiny if you haven't enjoyed the journey!

What would you like to hear

Again this is a no post post...cause while i feel like writing am not sure what i want to say. So wondering if i should try and reverse the question...what would you like to hear...

The vindictive judge

We are often very wary of people judging us, our thoughts and actions. I've heard this all to often from a lot of people. Recently i've begun to wonder whether it's really the world we are afraid off? or somewhere deep within it is we judging ourselves and pointing fingers at the world.

This isn't a long post, it doesn't even have examples or pictures, not even formatted text...just a thought...have you been judging yourself...

Soulmates

Courtesy: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SoulmateOne story about soulmates, presented by Aristophanes in Plato's Symposium, is that humans originally consisted of four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to complete them:

[Primeval man] could walk upright as men now do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could also roll over and over at a great pace, turning on his four hands and four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over and over with their legs in the air; this was when he wanted to run fast …Terrible was their might and strength, and the thoughts of their hearts were great, and they made an attack upon the gods ... Doubt reigned in the celestial councils. Should they kill them and annihilate the race with thunderbolts, as they had done the giants, then there would be an end of the sacrifices and worship which men offered to them; but, on the other hand, the gods could not suffer their insolence to be unrestrained. At last, after a good deal of reflection, Zeus discovered a way. He said: 'I have a plan which will humble their pride and improve their manners; men shall continue to exist, but I will cut them in two and then they will be diminished in strength and increased in numbers; this will have the advantage of making them more profitable to us. They shall walk upright on two legs, and if they continue insolent and will not be quiet, I will split them again and they shall hop about on a single leg.'

—Aristophanes, Plato’s Symposium, ^[1]

According to Theosophy, whose claims were modified by Edgar Cayce, God created androgynous souls, equally male and female. Later theories postulate that the souls split into separate genders, perhaps because they incurred karma while playing around on the Earth, or "separation from God". Over a number of reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all karmic debt is purged, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate.^[2][3]

Laughter the Best Medicine

Was having this conversation with dad...about families, tensions within them et. al. And we discussed how right from the one yr old baby in the house to the adults each was driven by their fears and aspirations. Fears and aspirations that can lead to conflict.

So what makes for a happy family? Or how would you even know whether your family was happy or not?

It's probably the amount of laughter or light hearted conversations you can hear in your family, that i feel is the only decent measure. And if that's the measure then you'll find that arguments over right and wrong don't work out well. Cause in real life seldom will you find people wrong, arguments happen over two different perspectives of right. And only once we learn to take ourselves lightly, issues lightly, rights and wrongs lightly...will mirth feel welcome in our homes

Feminism - Is it about the Woman ?

Dumb question innit? But then if it is so why am I asking it...

Feminism as per what I've come to make of it, is understood by people as for and by the women.

Ofcourse if that is true, it reiterates my other hypothesis; people don't think a lot.

Feminism has got nothing to do with women, it has got everything to do with Society. Yes society, the group of people living interdependent on each other for their survival as well as prosperity.

And the last four words of the above sentence hold the key to why it is so. An imbalance in the society will lead to its decay. Unfortunately no system manages to hold perfect balance. In our human context in most of the sub societies the imbalance crept in the form of women being trounced upon. And hence feminism sprouted to restore that balance. So if you hear someone say its about 'bra-burning' or 'proving to them men' or 'being equal', its just that they haven't thought enough. Feminism is not a fight of woman against man, it is a fight women fight hand in hand with men because its a fight for a better society.

Uneasy Love

I've been an ardent believer of the "try and understand" people philosophy

It's not a bad philosophy and to a very large extent it should be followed

But beyond that you'll find there's enough about a person you'll just never understand

And so if you are going to base your love on understanding then "curse me to any end for saying this now and not earlier" you are probably gonna be in big trouble

So this line today "Woman are meant to be loved, not to be understood" that i read on FB kinda struck me, while like most sensible statements its corrupted by a bias towards one gender...but if you can get past that...you'll find that only loving is loving...understanding is never gonna be loving

And that's a very uneasy zone...at least for me...because it involves going into a zone where you are vulnerable and exposed, there is no back up of rationality to help you...it sends shivers down your spine and makes your heart rush...

But hey didn't I just describe symptoms of being in love...

I rest my c"ass"e

Of Truth and Tact

So there was this intensive discussion going on with a young lady...who for all logic thrown at her would still come back to the strongly held notion..."all men are assholes"

Yes yes i can hear you ladies clapping out there, enough with it, this one really has it really ingrained into her (or atleast so she makes one believe :P )

Anyways there is and has always been one winning statement against this theory, and different people use it in different styles

The Charmer: "I bet I can tell you one chap who doesn't fall into this category and you'd agree with me....your father"

The Naughty Guy: "And pray tell me what category would you put your father in then?"

The Tactless Shoots from his mouth kinda guy: "So you're saying your father is an asshole?"

While and please note this all three statements say the same thing, they all (hopefully) have different impact on the listener

And this is where truth and tact come in and why some guys get popular with the girls (or anybody) and some don't...say what you must, but learn to say it in a tactful and pleasing manner :)

p.s. Those of you who are wondering which of these three categories TSI falls in, how slow can you be!!! (this again is the perfect example of the tactless shoots from his mouth kinda guy)...take a hint :P This is a i'm trying to rescue the situation, wasn't trying to offend you, but you know you are right, men 'can' be assholes, so please live with that and don't hate me for it, but still i win the argument kind of apologetic post

p.p.s. and so dear reader...even in the worst of situations...have your sense of humor about :P ...and do image search for 'men are assholes' its hilarious

Africa Male

The Sanely Insane again in conversation with Miss Hot Chocolate Fudge

For the first part click here: Of Sex n Spirituality

HCF: TSI.. a pal in africa (male) is currently got a NY chick staying with him
getting the best sexual ed he could have ever asked for

TSI: good for him; may i ask why am i being made jealous?

HCF: and is for some reason worried that anal sex may lead to disease. To the best of my knowledge that is bull, wanted to ask you to double check if there was a health hazard

TSI: if she has aids...its possible

HCF: aids - vaginal or anal, either way na

TSI: yeps

HCF: anal has no additional health hazard or does it

TSI: nopes...the usual STDs, anything in the blood

HCF: thanks! thought as much bt was not 100% certain. No - was not making u jealous, man is a scrawny boy.. recently initiated so like a boy in a zoo, jealously unwarranted

TSI: and heading directly to anal...well he's got bumper lottery :P, funnily though i didnt feel jealous, I actually cant seem to give a damn :P

HCF: yea same here he gives me details n i hear like a maternal aunt and not missing the feeling either

TSI: u have a guy u silly ass

HCF: so?

TSI: why wud u feel jealous, duh!

HCF: u do know that being in a relationship can dull the sex life also unless u are very vigilant

TSI: really? dunno...never been in one :P that long

HCF: oooh.. big hug, not being patronizing

TSI: :)

HCF: but heard u feeling lost type emotions for a while now, and now ur dng all the "actions in ur control" bt it aint happening for the now

TSI: what r u blabbering abt?

HCF: the feeling that i get that u are gng through a tired of trying phase wrt women
and are fed up and indifferent n dng the right things, like the arranged marriage etc
but heart not in it

TSI: nopes..i was giving the eye to eye look to a girl on the metro today...trousers, formal jacket, heels, kohl eyes...I jst dont want normal game anymore...I want the game...I want the girl who has the tigress in her...I've had enuf of these rabbits, I want one who'll play the game back, stand up and make conversation, those types

HCF: heard a certain jolie came back in the market ;-). And heard tantric tigress tales n occult secrets she is a owner of

TSI: I think she gets off these days by adopting kids...thats her new orgasm :P

HCF: may be u can show her a path back to her womb

TSI: we'll let the hollywood hunks do that :P I'd pefer someone more local

HCF: rakhi sawant? who wld u place as a jolie league, Sen sushmita ?

TSI: dude...i dont want an actress.

HCF: am kidding mr serious, I know u dont

TSI: why dont ppl use the ‘:P’ smilye like i do..makes it easy for everyone to understand :P

HCF: Interesting observation made today though, was in a all girl school and never got along with the uber feminine kinds, well FB had an interesting trend to show 10 years later, 90% of these are married, hve a 2-5 yr old kid, not more than 100-170 friends, and most from school, and status n pics revolving arnd the toddler, vs interestingly, a lot of the DPS/ non girl school girls, are not married, have international degrees and opinions the shocking thing!

TSI: yeah..so now we kno...parents who send girls to girls schools intend to marry them as soon as they can legally :P
HCF: yea the unwritten rule of the 25 yr cut off mark

TSI: :P

p.s. Dear African male, hope u r having the ride of your life time, with warm regards and best wishes TSI and HCF...imagine us giving our winks and thumbs up signs :P

The cupcake

There was an interesting series of tweets last week.

“In a relationship the one who gives less of a damn, commands more power”

Ofcourse this is the very kind of a tweet that a melodrama like me can’t let go uncommented upon and quipped…

“Since when have relationships been about power”…

Though I was actually wrong there, damn right they are, however, they are not so much about taking control, seizing command as much as leaving control and giving power.

A rocky relationship is more or less driving a vehicle while holding the steering wheel tightly…it makes it wobble. You’ve got ease of your grip a little, trust the vehicle to take your cue and the feedback it is giving, that's what makes for a smooth drive.

I remember once in Pune I was trying my hand at swimming and this guy gave me a good tip, float in the water, keep your head underwater and open your eyes, let go of your fear, let go of your control a little and you’ll find the water helping you.

Relationships are about power, but not about powerplays and yes there’s not guarantee that if you give up power the other person won’t make a power-play of it. There’s never a guarantee ;)

For all the cup cakes you would have had, probably the one that will linger in your mind...and heart is the one, that day, the lone remaining frosted coconut one, sitting in your fridge awaiting you; and your hungry tummy yearning out for it. The one that you split in half to share…that in short is the way 'power' works in a 'relationship'

Who is John Galt

John Galt is not just a character, he is a concept. He is a concept that we all should be wary off, he is a concept that should keep us from getting complacent.

Because one day we may find that the people, the technology, the skills that we had taken for granted are no longer good enough; that someone has put a spanner in our works.

Companies can lose their employees, their technological edges; people can find that their skills are now redundant cause their entire industry is now redundant!

So not everyday, but every once in a while you should try and look around and wonder... Who is John Galt ;)

A Matter of Trust

"I'm afraid you'll fail me"

"I believe you won't fail me"

The key differentiating point in the two lines...is this oft used and more oft than not abused term...trust...

What the heck is trust...When one says one trusts someone what meaning is it supposed to convey?

Would you agree with this..."I know you enough to believe in you in matters where there is no evidence and even in matters of contra evidence, and in matters where i may not believe in myself"

Or maybe there is no one level of trust...maybe we our trust varies between a zero and a maximum, but, the point to focus on is this..."belief", "evidence" and "self"

And from here I launch into a unrelated yet connected topic....what is God?

Is it not the belief we have...some people have it in a guru, some in stone, some in the characters of a holy book, some have it in their parents, some in their friends...some in themselves.

It all boils down to...belief.

You haven't begun your journey oh wanderer till you know what you believe in.

I Hate Luv Stories

Romance has a very special place in my life, somehow the only time my words get together to create a worthwhile vision is when i characters and their relationships conjure up in my mind.

Romance is also special because it has left me so bloodied that as my last Muse once said to me 'I don't have any left to give to you'. I sincerely hope that that's not true but very likely that is.

What life has also done is that by quelling the romantic aspects it has brought to forth the concept of Love as separate from romance. You can see and feel aspects in better light, a different light. And once you get over the troubles of a beating heart you see that you can actually smile. For very little else remains that you would worry for. You can face your troubles in the eye and laugh as they ravage through.

Have written two sets of lines one that talks of the pain of heart breaking and the other that talks about the strength of the life form to take on its troubles with a smile

Unforgiven Love
Unsolicited hurt
I wonder what madness brings us to thee
Forlorn Love
Weeping blood
Roses have brought me only pain

Sad notes don't come to me
My wheels are rolling, a free Willy
Each breath changes the picture
Each stroke adding to the texture
Through my un-surmounted struggles
Smiling knowingly to all the other muggles

p.s. We saw the movie today, for some freak reason i actually ended up liking what was done. But given the kind of stuff I just wrote above, probably i'm not in the best of my senses :P

He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God..

This came up in conversation today, not many of us know that some of the better songs of our times trace back to religious texts...so this is a quick trivia post directly quoting wikipedia..all for your trivial delight :P



"Turn! Turn! Turn! (to Everything There is a Season)", often abbreviated to "Turn! Turn! Turn!", is a song adapted entirely from the Book of Ecclesiastes in the Bible (with the exception of the last line) and put to music by Pete Seeger in 1959. Seeger waited until 1962 to record it, releasing the song on his The Bitter and The Sweet album on Columbia Records.45% of the royalties for the song are donated to the Israeli Committee Against House Demolitions, due, in Seeger's own words, to the fact that "[in addition to the music] I did write six words."

The lyrics are taken almost verbatim from the book of Ecclesiastes, as found in the King James Version (1611) of the Bible(Ecclesiastes 3:1), though the sequence of the words was rearranged for the song. Ecclesiastes is traditionally ascribed to King Solomon and for a time, the book was prohibited by the rabbis, who deemed it too cynical and depressing.
“

1. To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2. A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, a time to reap that which is planted;
3. A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4. A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5. A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6. A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7. A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8. A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. ”

The Biblical text posits there being a time and place for all things: laughter and sorrow, healing and killing, war and peace, and so on. The lines are open to myriad interpretations, but as a song they are commonly performed as a plea for world peace, with an emphasis on the closing line: "a time for peace, I swear it's not too late." This line and the title phrase "Turn! Turn! Turn!" are the only parts of the lyric written by Seeger himself.



"Rivers of Babylon" is a song written and recorded by Brent Dowe and Trevor McNaughton of The Melodians in 1970, and popularized mainly by the 1978 Boney M. cover version. The Melodians' original versions of the song appeared in the sound track to the 1972 movie The Harder They Come.

The song is based on the Biblical hymn Psalm 137, a hymn expressing the yearnings of the Jewish people in exile following the Babylonian conquest of Jerusalem in 586 BC. The namesake rivers of Babylon are the Euphrates river, its tributaries, and the Chebar river. The song also has words from Psalm 19:14. It is one of a few pop songs whose lyrics come directly from the Bible

Psalm 137

1 By the rivers of Babylon we sat and wept
when we remembered Zion.

2 There on the poplars
we hung our harps,

3 for there our captors asked us for songs,
our tormentors demanded songs of joy;
they said, "Sing us one of the songs of Zion!"

4 How can we sing the songs of the LORD
while in a foreign land?

5 If I forget you, O Jerusalem,
may my right hand forget its skill .

6 May my tongue cling to the roof of my mouth
if I do not remember you,
if I do not consider Jerusalem
my highest joy.

7 Remember, O LORD, what the Edomites did
on the day Jerusalem fell.
"Tear it down," they cried,
"tear it down to its foundations!"

8 O Daughter of Babylon, doomed to destruction,
happy is he who repays you
for what you have done to us-

9 he who seizes your infants
and dashes them against the rocks.



"40", also known as "40 (How Long)", is the tenth and final track from U2's 1983 album, War. The song is noted for its live performances, often involving the audience singing along for minutes after the band has left the stage. The lyrics are a modification of the Bible's Psalm 40.

The song did not get a commercial release. It was, however released as a promotional single only in Germany, simply to promote U2's appearance at the Loreley Festival in 1983.[1] The single was released on a 7" gramophone record with a B-side of the album version of "Two Hearts Beat as One". Since its live debut on February 26, 1983, in Dundee, "40" has been a staple of U2's live concerts, having been performed over 300 times.

1 I waited patiently for the LORD; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.

2 He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings.

3 And he hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the LORD.

4 Blessed is that man that maketh the LORD his trust, and respecteth not the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.

5 Many, O LORD my God, are thy wonderful works which thou hast done, and thy thoughts which are to us-ward: they cannot be reckoned up in order unto thee: if I would declare and speak of them, they are more than can be numbered.

6 Sacrifice and offering thou didst not desire; mine ears hast thou opened: burnt offering and sin offering hast thou not required.

7 Then said I, Lo, I come: in the volume of the book it is written of me,

8 I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart.

9 I have preached righteousness in the great congregation: lo, I have not refrained my lips, O LORD, thou knowest.

10 I have not hid thy righteousness within my heart; I have declared thy faithfulness and thy salvation: I have not concealed thy lovingkindness and thy truth from the great congregation.

11 Withhold not thou thy tender mercies from me, O LORD: let thy lovingkindness and thy truth continually preserve me.

12 For innumerable evils have compassed me about: mine iniquities have taken hold upon me, so that I am not able to look up; they are more than the hairs of mine head: therefore my heart faileth me.

13 Be pleased, O LORD, to deliver me: O LORD, make haste to help me.

14 Let them be ashamed and confounded together that seek after my soul to destroy it; let them be driven backward and put to shame that wish me evil.

15 Let them be desolate for a reward of their shame that say unto me, Aha, aha.

16 Let all those that seek thee rejoice and be glad in thee: let such as love thy salvation say continually, The LORD be magnified.

17 But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God.

Comment as Long as Posts

Since i've written a bloody long comment might as well save some energy and use it as a post (yes lazy bum title goes well here :P)

So here goes...quite a hotly debated article... do read it, coz only then will you have the context to make my text seem comprehensible

Priya Ramani's: I may not be an Indian

Lots of interesting parts to this article, all different and yet tied up into one theme...i gotta learn to do that.

The whole part where you talk about your tastes and mannerisms not being atypical of an Indian made me wonder...what is this Indianess we keep talking about. Is it that we are tied to each other by a national boundary, because within this mannerisms and tastes vary to such large extents that you could never identify one common 'culture'. Will have to give that a thought, one is so used to be called an Indian that we assume we actually understand what the term means, confusing ubiquitous usage with comprehension.

Having said that for that matter all countries have fake Pride. Name one that has achieved anything of great significance and i'll tell you where they are faking it.

Everyone's on steroids...be it for festivals, weddings, SRK / Bips stage shows, football, F1...name it...people like being on steroids they just find their own excuse for it.

"Personally, I’ve always believed Ram was a loser and I have no idea why Sita didn’t leave him many years before he threw a tantrum that resulted in her walking through fire"


Aah the much spoken of why if Ram was supposed to be so just and a god did he do such injustice to Sita. You are not the first to have found the glitch in the lovely story called Ramayan; sadly however you are also not the first who has looked at a stone on the road and announced to the world...lo behold..stone on the road!!! Doesn't take much thought to come to that conclusion does it.

What would have been more interesting is if you could have tried to think why the author put the glitch there. After all he built an almost perfect character throughout his story, why couldn't he end it at..and they lived happily ever after...fat chance that his publisher told him, good mush, fancy action, but ain't gonna sell...add some spice and he went back to add that. Give it a thought maybe then some interesting perspective may strike you :)

Aah the what if question (i'm doing quite a bit of the 'aah' ain't I :P )
Some times it takes people to explore the what if option to realize why they made the original decision in the first place. Sometimes they explore both and don't find meaning in either. Some however know why they value what they do. I'll leave you to your dilemma. You could always try being a writer in the country you did your masters, 40 ain't that old to stop experimenting :)

Ok now here's where i get real cheeky. So you're sitting at this fantabulous restaurant which evidently caters to gentry who are used to being asked still or sparkling (instead of mineral or regular :P). It's a lovely building, someone studied architecture to design it, some contractor got labour to build it, someone dug the iron out of the ground, turned it into steel, others got the cement. A lot of effort went into getting you to sit into that chair at that restaurant to ask for that water and eat the food you did or will, what do you feel has been your contribution to building something, how do you feel, you have added value to someone else's life?

Cute Little Love Stories 11: The close dance

Cute Little Love Stories 10: A dogged life

"You think I'm weird?" she asked, like she always did, a random question out of the blue

"Well" he said giving it some pause "Yes you are, I always see you in the house wearing panties, never even shorts, unless some guest comes"

"Err so"

"So its more like a guy thing"

"Wearing panties?"

"Right, that!!! roaming around in underwear"

"Oh ya, i see what ya mean"

"So that confirms it, I am weird"

"Most definitely"

"What do you find weirdest about me?"



"That you're always the first person on the dance floor, when you don't even dance"

"I can't help it, I don't love dancing, but I love holding in my arms, someone who is..."

{This line is courtesy a colleague, was too good to waste}

Cute Little Love Stories 10: A dogged life

Cute Little Love Stories 9: The unnerving silence

"You think I have ego issues, don't you" She asked of him in a manner which made it less of a question and more of a condemnation

"What makes you say that" he asked back wondering where did this come from

"Because you simply won't believe I couldn't call because I was busy"

"Yes, I won't buy that but I won't attribute it to ego, it might be ego, it may be a hundred other things. You probably don't care enough, probably you do but are afraid to admit it to yourself"

"But why can't you believe I just couldn't call because I was too busy?"

"Because if that is so that means I haven't had an impact on you enough to take time out from whatever else is on your mind, and that will mean we will both have to again be born"

"Huh?"

"You think, our lives crossed path accidentally? Well you may, I don't. I believe we have been doing this for many lives before this and we'll have to keep doing this till we give in to each other,....completely. I knew you when I met you, I was hoping you'd also, but evidently you don't and so we'll have to repeat this all over again"

"What makes you so sure we are meant to be. Because I know you and I know me."

"I don't know me" she replied with the shallow tone which she spoke in when her steeled heart let her speak her emotions out

"Maybe, not this time, but one day, one life time you will"

"Ass!!!"

"No dog"

"Huh?"

"I was thinking since we wasted this human form and won't get it again for so many thousand births, lets be dogs in the next life, what say"

"Why dogs?"

"You like dogs, I like dogs...it would be fun being a dog"

"You just want to hump like one" She said in her smart assy tone


"Now that you mention it, sounds like a good idea. But i was more thinking like being nice golden Labradors and we'll be in a family with kids and we'll be the best pets those kids could ever have"

"Sounds good, you can make even this nonsensical talk, sound good"

"Yes but try doing one thing though"

"Don't play so hard to get next time"

"Why you wanna end this in the next life only, don't ya have patience to convince me through a few life times more"

"I'll follow you till eternity,...just that"

"Just what?"

"Without you i can't feel myself complete. I want you in me, so deep that our spirits mix, I want you in a way that no one can tell us apart, I want you so that there is no I left"

A burning police station

What made a small incident make Gandhi call of the quit India movement?

Was it so wrong for a group of villagers to voice their fury over ruthless policemen in their own way

Cut to the present, anybody whose got a point to make be it the Maoists or the well respected 'soldiers' of Maharashtra or their newer counterparts the 'New construction army' takes to the stick, brick or gun

And you get to realize the old man was talking sense. One man's freedom fighter another man's terrorist, whose violence will u justify whose will you condemn?

When taking up a cause, it is essential to take care, that we in our zealousness are not replacing one evil with another

Cute Little Love Stories 9: The unnerving silence

Cute Little Love Stories 8: The train robbery



"you're not talking much today"

"I am, i'm talking to you"

"No you're speaking with me but you're not talking"

"You know i'm a private person, i don't like to talk much"

"Yeah rite, yesterday night you were"

"I was drunk"

"But you can talk"

"I'm afraid"

"Nothing wrong with that"

"You acted like a jerk"

"I know"

"Bitch"

He smiled

"What are you smiling about"

"Funny thing is you can split an ice cream with me, but you won't share your thoughts"

"No, i won't"

"Why did you call me over half way across the city for then"

"I dunno"

"Exactly"

"You should leave now, call when you're in the city again, we'll catch up for lunch"

"No, we won't, you have enough friends, you call me, when you need me, when you can't hold back any longer and need to talk"

"I'm not that desperate"

"Well then, we'll see"

"Bye"

"You know i won't say having loved and lost is better than not having loved at all, cause i live with that pain every day, but it atleast makes you feel alive..."

Back Up Plan

Got back from seeing the movie...the first thing i'd like to say...JLo has ugly toes...i can't understand why they...focussed on them in the opening shot of the movie... (In guy equivalent...we wouldn't focus the first shot of a action flick on dog poop would we)

Anyways you know this can't possibly be what this post is about.

There's this scene in the movie where the two have just had sex and the gal tells the guy that she is pregnant...and the guy blows his top...Pause here... watz wrong in the scene...watz wrong is that here one of them didn't understand what the other person was going through...the girl tries to explain her logic, feelings and thoughts but the guy gets spaced out into a totally different zone. Its not like one shouldn't feel what one feels, but it is also important to try and feel what the other one feels...and this is something important we can take from this scene (crap i sound like ure 8th class moral science teacher...crap crap crap :P )

There is something interesting about the scene few shots later, where he turns up at her door...And what this scene teaches us...(no no that one should say sorry and get on, thats trivial)...but that its ok if u blow you're top off once in a while, arguments are gonna happen, no one expects anybody to be always rational...as the quote goes from the movie Gia

"Francesco: This is life, not heaven. You don't have to be perfect... "

ok i should sleep now...and i promise to redraft this post into a more readable post when i wake up
and i promise u i'm lying abt the above promise :P

Mortal Kombat

I like movies, for one somewhere when you are busy enjoying them there comes a one odd scene or a dialogue u remember for long...like those panchatantra stories

Well this one's from Mortal Kombat...says...face your fears



No matter how much we run from them buggers...they always seem to catch up...worse the later we try facing them...the stronger they seem to get and the older we become...

So then...temme...what are your fears you've been running from

Off Sex n Spirituality

The Sanely Insane in conversation with Miss Hot Chocolate Fudge

HCF: http://www.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/0603/features/peru.html
TSI: Wow!!!
HCF: read a book on it and for sure want this to be one of the life experiences i want
TSI: i'd want to reach into the mind unsupported by any chemicals
HCF: i would too but the "shamanistic" sciences have always held me captive, the depth of their wisdom
TSI: while these 'assisted' methods are good, they can also potentially ruin u...the best is to grow into the state of facing ureself
HCF: would ordinarily agree with u, but with the shamanistic healer have an intutive trust with the ancient sciences they belong to
TSI: all of these...kundalini, shaman, gurus...while they have mastered control and thus can be of assistance to others; i'd rather fight it out and master it myself
HCF: but u cant decry the importance of a guru in almost every stage of life
TSI: becoz even masters have varying levels of mastery...so while he may be able to help u...he may also be exposing u to danger
and its very difficult to ascertain whose the right master or the wrong one
HCF: trust the universe to guide u and surrender to that trust
TSI: in that case...u might as well let the universe (the master of masters) guide u into u :)
HCF: wel said; to letting each person find the best suited path
TSI: :) u kno v shud try this together...not the peru thing… but the meditation thing
HCF: hmm, interesting idea, do u meditate?
TSI: used to....havent since quite a while now, it can b very discomforting
HCF: btw. there is this fellow , closely connected to one of my friends, and we have unexplored sexual vibe, or rather used to have these sexual vibes, not seen him since 2008 and he suggested we meet in mumbau, turned him down!, am proud of me ;-)
TSI: :)
HCF: not in the space for it rather go to the darga in the sea
TSI: :), I've been there once...though not when the qawwali was on..damn
HCF: they have sufi music there?
TSI: like mandirs have bhajans dargahs have qawwalis, even nizamudin dargah has
HCF: i know wonder if haji ali has
TSI: well they've filmed enuf of them in movies, am sure they ahve in real too
HCF: guess so
TSI: u kno watz really likeable abt u, i can have the most carnal of talks wid u and the most deeply spiritual topics too
HCF: often find the 2 inter connceted
TSI: they are...for both of them...u have to start going inside
HCF: the ability to be open abt sex is also the open ability to explore other dimensions and uncannily often ppl in trances make utterances that can only be described as orgasmic , sex was meant to be a peep into bliss for those not attempting the fuller journey often denoted as a shorter orgasm compared to meditation, but damm i miss kissing
TSI: well i cant even begin to tell wat all i miss :P
HCF: try
TSI: the feel of skin against skin...there's something so comforting...playing with the hair...the feel of the other person's weight....their heart beat felt thru their breathing
there's jst so much
HCF: miss finger tips trailing
TSI: miss taking in the upper lip and playing with it when kissing
HCF: miss tounge conversations
TSI: tht was gonna be my next :P, its so amazing how such a lil primitive thing can make u feel so close to another
HCF: yea and can be a language of its own
TSI: there's something abt kissing a girl's back...i mean dont kno why u gals like it or why we like to...but everybody likes it
HCF: men dont like their backs being kissed?
TSI: ermm i actually never thought abt it...dun no...dont think so
HCF: really i thought they did, ears are tricky some surrender some hate it
TSI: yeah i'm undecided on that also, i'm more to the hate, i like nibbling i dont like being nibbled..not there atleast
HCF: was more abt tounge in ear, that is the reference
TSI: ah hmm thts ok actually
HCF: aah hmm glad to know, abt ur spots ;-)
TSI: well in that case...u havent even started :P
HCF: some things are not abt words
TSI: yes but we clearly havent even come near my spots..except the initial bit abt tongue n kissing, but yeah i get wat u say :) ;)
HCF: else it is like getting a manual with a date
TSI: yeah and thats ugly, unless ure SRK in MNIK :P
HCF: then it becomes endearing, the joys of being a super star
TSI: :P

Waking Up

Ok this is a back to back marriage kinda post. (Yes i'm in that age group...sigh :P )

Anyways so to its quite difficult to choose a partner, not just through the arranged route but even when you are in a relationship.

And its pretty difficult to reason out stuff, sometimes the looks may be good but the compatibility isn't there, sometimes the person is nice but hell your tastes don't match; so many contra-indications are there that they can drive you mad.


So there's a simpler way to get to a yes / no and i'd like your feedback on it, and no not a logical one, but one based on your experience...So the hypothesis is...If we ask ourselves "Do i want to wake up next to this person every day for the next 40 years of my life" and we don't get a comfortable yes, then its probably a no.

And like i said, don't rationale it out, ask yourself the question and lemme kno if it works

Partnership

Ok that's just euphemistically to say...marriage...

Was chatting with someone one day and within the discsussion it emerged, that if one were to go just by profession...a dentist would make an ideal choice for a spouse...Here's why:

1. Its not a luxury business, its in the health domain, always demand
2. Its not art that one day you'll go out of fashion or you need to be discovered...all you need to be is competent
3. Very less chance of somebody ever needing you in the night or for an emergency
4. The earnings are pretty handsome
5. You can relocate easily
6. You can go on extended vacations and come back when you feel like

:P :P :P

Trial By Fire?

Everyone has heard of the "Management Gurus" who in their workshops make you walk over burning coals, to make you into the fearless leader who can take the company through difficult times, or some other rationale

Take your refund dear chaps, take your refund, you'd be more of a leader if you won a golgappa eating contest...that's more tough

Walking on coals has nothing to do with adversity, its simply a question of something that looks dangerous, but it isn't...so if it isn't dangerous, then all you are doing is not letting your mind feel the "apparent" fear...that's all, that's no mean achievement either, but nothing as great as what the management gurus would like you to believe...

Cute Little Love Stories - 8, The train robbery

Cute Litte Love Stories - 7, The hotness

"Motu, so gaee" he messages her

"Haan" she replies

"Tu kabse inni jaldi sonney lagi"

"kya hai, tang mat karo"

"Yaar, mujhe lagta hai kisi ne metro chura li"

"kya!!! tu paagal hai"

"Haan woh toh hoon, but yaar abhi i was going from the sec 18 underpass and there was a metro going by, raat ko 1:30 bajey, soch!!!"

"Tu sachchi mein paagal hai"

"Haan toh jhoothi moothi ka kaun paagal hota hai, but soch kya masti aayegi agar kal paper mein aaye, metro train stolen"

"hee hee hee" her girly giggle, he could visualize her giggling...she had a beautiful childlike giggle

and he was prepared to be a paagal if thats what it took to make her giggle at 1:30 a.m. , she sitting in some remote bloody town...

as he told a friend earlier in the evening...bewkoofi na ki, toh pyar kya keeya...

Kati Patang

fingers flying on the micro mini keyboard of phone "how was your day"

beep beep "was ok, rough day"

beep beep "how was yours"

beep beep "pretty good, i downloaded this bloody awesome movie btw..."

beep beep "oh yeah temme abt it"

beep beep

beep beep...and so flow the conversations when two strangers get acquainted and start exploring each other...

Ofcourse these beeps would have started off from a chance meet somewhere...and will probably turn to hour long conversations of same nature...

soon however even this will pass into the phase when the two shall start meeting...and this is where the rubber meets the road...because no matter how much you text, scrap, tweet or talk...its only when you spend time with each other that the heart either grows fonder or fainter...real real fast...

And that is why people find the change difficult to adjust to, it all happens so fast...the person you were talking to suddenly starts giving you hot rushes (in the good way ;) ) or you start wondering what were you thinking of all these weeks.

Whats more discomforting is the reason you've stopped liking that person...dresses badly, has a wierd odour to them, teeth, hair, bad at humor, bad humor :P, too lanky, too fat, all the things that you thought were too superficial to you...

And then the phase of the i've been busy, ignoring the person, something that starts happening naturally...

And i've seen both sides of the gender get caught on both sides of the problem...the ignorer and the ignored (yes ignoree is no word :P). Its hard for someone to explain this to someone who they've lost interest in as to why...mostly they ain't sure themselves...but its not so hard for the ignored to catch onto the signals...

In that case...Be silent, be gone...its probably for the better :) (and don't trust me on this...life is an experiment..go ahead and have yours :P)

Conversations with a Rockstar : Her turn to ask

The first part of the conversation can be found here

RockStar:hey tell me was thr sum super hot girl in xyz course kya a yr junior to u? or maybe in ur batch wht was her name?
Me: yeah na we've discussed her...junior
RockStar: name
Me: some muslim chick wait
RockStar: haan wht was her name …yes !
Me: it'll come to me...not so shaply toes, fat ass, but wat looks and nice style..daymn
RockStar: haan she wore suits n stuff…but was really hot..haina?
Me: cant remember abhi give me a day..yeah
RockStar: k..kal sum senior was talkin bout her
Me: he he…so wat abt her?
RockStar: kuch nahi turns out even her uniors drooled over her *juniors
Me: yeah she was droolable...wat ppl kno less is she was pretty smart...she used to teach the english in one of the CAT coaching places and had a blog also fucking rich...her pop was a senior VP /owned some financial investment firm
RockStar: sahi…so while everyone else was lustin aftr her cute butt…one guy loved the 'pilgrim soul' in her…lol…sahi
Me: no she was no pilgrim...she was smart, rich, pretty and quite a fool...madly after a guy who as far as i cud guess treated her like shit…or so i felt
RockStar: sigh
Me: :P
RockStar: irony of life…why is life so unfair…seriously…u shud wirte a post on this
Me: life isn't...but life also presents everyone a challenge
RockStar: thw cruelty of life
Me: some ppl life gives very difficult challenges…poverty, ugliness, dumbness, physical/mental handicap…she comparatively got a simpler one :P…think if there were no challenge there wud b no fun either
RockStar: ok tell me…if sum random guy can see her smart brain n see her gettin treated badly…n has a thing for her…why cant he muster the courage to wlk upto her…n make things right
Me: errr hello...whatever gave u the idea i didnt...
RockStar: lol...oh ya u did…:P
Me: i was never the popular chap around...and the more popular chaps (read student council) took to getting me listed in the bad books


RockStar: i just asked coz im surrounded by such stupid guys here at nm who act like lil scared girls..when the time comes for then to show up u knw
Me: and it worked...on her atleast :P
Me: yeah becoz 90% of them will hear a no…imagine random guy...somebody from college...he's walking up to u...everybody in the collg sees it...then he has to come say hi, say something...without it sounding obvious he's hitting on u...but then why will u think he's otherwise…why else is he coming up to say hi…ure attitude defences will shore up...and he'll get snubbed…hence guys back off
RockStar: cmon ur makin this guy sound like a kid frm the homeless shelter…the guy has to have sum courage…so spunk to get the girls attention…no? …*some spunk…n i think girls appreciate tht… as for me
Me: i dun kno the exact circumstances...of the guy u r talking abt…so cant say…yes some spunk is necessary
RockStar: im so done wid people here...if any guy wants to be wid me. he can just cut thru the chase n the crap n just come n tell me. id appreciate tht more than the usual..ooo i think i like u but m so sonfused coz i have a gf already crap !! aaggghh
Me:Waisey :P i like u...but am no mood to hit on u...jst saying...
RockStar: lol…i meant genereally na
Me: i'm saying specifically :P ure a cute, smart, fun girl...like u...but like i said, me no gonna b hitting... :P
RockStar: see thts why i like u…tht makes it uber cool
Me: he he...yeps...i dont go in for a kill unless i feel the bait wants it and i am very on the face abt it :P
RockStar: :P
Me: this has gone into a very boring mode :P too much on the face talk :P
RockStar: lol ok ur tunr gimme sum guyish info
Me: sure ask…is this still for that gj chap?
RockStar: noo…see
Me: thnk god
RockStar: haan this guy na senior we hang out usually a lot like post gym..catch up for dinner n all nice to talk to kinds bt i think hes got a thing for me n shit i dnt knw how to act wid him…oz he is tht gj’s classmate…n he doesnt knw abhi tak about me n gj..
Me: errr ok…u want him to hit on u?
RockStar: nooo…like yest he was bummed coz of placemnts n stuff….so i asked him ok wht wud u do the day u get placed..so hes like..go out to a nice place wid u… :| …n i was like...uhh..ok.. :-s
Me: well...tht sounds like he's hitting on u..subtly
RockStar: yaaa…n im just dreadin wht he will say when he gets to knw bout the gj chap
Me: errmm...u were hanging out with him, u liked him, but he had a gal..so thats the end of that…watz there' to be embarassed?
RockStar: uhh…i dunno…i just feel bad about the whole thing…hey u knw wht…i blasted tht guy no…so hes like..ok u take time to cool down…just gimme one day
to talk to u in person…PM i will make things right…have to give u explanations n stuff
i wasnt fakin it…n other crapo *crap
Me: dudette...let me giv u a simple...non unclish hint...
RockStar: ?
Me: there are parts of a relationship tht are troublesome...those are the ones where u adapt to the others peculiarities…but there are other parts that shud work like clockwork if the shoe doesnt fit right...it will bite…now go figure :P
RockStar: thts deep :P
Me: :P thts wat i learned from my exp with the TLC girl...don't try and make it work...atleast not in the early phases...the effort part shud come in the last mile not in the first mile…btw can i use this for a post...this conversation, i'll ofcourse unname u and change a few details
RockStar: i was about to say tht…this shud totally go into ur blog
Me: see i'm quite fast ;)
RockStar: :P i figured tht while havin the bra size convo wid u :P nyways i'll leave..bandra's callin
Me: u want the bra size thing also?
RockStar: lol
Me: hmm makes sense...will do
RockStar: ur blog…do wtever
Me: in two separate posts
RockStar: see u :)
Me: have fun :)

Conversations with a Rockstar : Mini Diploma

RockStar: heyi
Me: heyo…ssup
RockStar: nothin 2 day brk…ssup wid u
Me: work, lots of it :P a bad proj mgr, but other than that...lemme see…found another good blog to read…chat with the lady too
RockStar: :P ooh
Me: US lady...mother of a teenager :P
RockStar: crap
Me: no no...everythings not abt hitting on ppl yaar…gud fun to talk to her
RockStar: its not? :| damn i got it all wrong :P
Me: nopes...its not....otherwise the moment u find somebody who accepts ure hitting then tht means no more meeting nu ppl? :P i talk to ppl becoz i like talking to ppl hitting is just incidental to finding someone u really sync up wid
RockStar: ok ok guruji
Me: he he :P stop geting me into uncle mode!!! I shall from now on lay all the blame of my uncle mode on ppl who elicit it :P
RockStar: lol
Me: so anyways she's one helluva battery charged lady...she's found a new bf...and she's all explosm abt it
RockStar: been thr done tht…lol
Me: no no...u haven't....hav u done panty thursdays?
RockStar: i wear panties everyday…whts so special bout thrus? thursdays*
Me: its the day u take them off...multiple times...for a particular kind of activity :P
RockStar: so it shud be cald panty less thrus na
Me: ermm i think she called it down-panty day or something..dont expect me to remember so many details :P
RockStar: I thought u were good wid details when it came to womens lingerie
Me: yes but not the terminology
RockStar: u gotta catch up kid :P
Me: actually am not so good with lingerie...u will have to enlighten me...
RockStar: sure

Me: i kno bra, strapless bra, wonderbra (=pushup i presume), sports bra, nighty...I dont understand cup sizes and all…I kno the letter means something and size means something…like 32D…but i dont kno wat
RockStar: thrs the sporty panties..the kinda thing in which u can jog upto 5kms n make out too..then thr r the thongs…yeah u cant jog in those lol. they might come off any sec...grt for sex..then thrs the lacy kinds...u knw the usual barbie dollish..then thrs the usual ugly girl kinda panty..comes in repulsive colours like brown…then thrs the magic panties…does wonders to fat women by hididn the extra fat…then thrs the outrightly in ur face sexy kinds....see thru panties...mahn i gotta buy on of those…lol…the typical victoria secret kinds…and tht…my frnd…is a mini guide
Me: thongs = g-string = a v shaped thing which is mostly stringy and jst coves the crotch
RockStar: to the world of panties…yes…ur doin well…:P
Me: naah dont do those see thru ones...no fun
RockStar: 32d = a lean girl wid a weird boobs
Me: no no explain to me...wat the nbr means and wat the letter means
RockStar: 36d = pamela Anderson…32a= non existent breasts more like mosquito bites.. these were the class intervals…rest u can do the maths..:P
Me: wat u r telling Me is that u dont kno ureself wat 32 means and wat d means isnt it
RockStar: uff…its so simple wht cant u understand…see 2..means when the measure ur chest in inches..like they do in the gym…so a lean girl wud be 32
Me: ok
RockStar: n a volumptuious one wud be 36…and a b c d means the cup size…now a…lean girl wid a boob job wud be 32 d…n a fat girl wid no boobs wud be 36a…get it?...mahn guys r dumb
Me: hullo...u can jst throw a figure into our face an say go decipher it…this was all the explanation one needed :)…now i 'know' :P
Me: :P ok so in bags we have clutches and those big ones or is there more to it?
RockStar: cluthes go well wid a nice elegant evenin dress usually then big bags...classy never outta style…then uve got crazy tattooed emo stuff…then uv got classy small ones....gucci jimmy chooo prada n the like
Me: small but with shoulder straps
RockStar: sling bags...colg chicks carry tht..u wudnt need this info i think
Me: err i hope /guess not :P
RockStar: yes. not everyone can carry those...u see thrs a thin line between classy n tacy
*tacky when it comes to hang bags
Me: he he
RockStar: every woman possesses atleast 3 subject to no upper limit :P
Me: tht part i kno :P
RockStar: one is a dump all ur crap in bag... the thing which they carry everyday to work/colg. it carries more stuff than the lost city of gold
Me: and yet mostly, no eclairs
RockStar: al cluttered n messed up kinds..sigh ya
Me: :P
RockStar: n it takes forever to find the lip gloss ..its more like a lucky dip
Me: so thats bags
RockStar: second is the date bag....darker shades...girls carry them to dates, ya, wht else u want...shoes u knw, bags i told u, lingerie, man, u alrdy knw too much
Me: clothes :P salwar kameez, tees, shirts, tube tops
RockStar: self descriptive :P
Me: there's something pecil straps or something, *pencil, shrugs, wat else is there
skirts, long, gypsy, mini, micro mini; trousers
RockStar: pencil strap..noodle strap kinda like a sleeve less...wid just two lil strings to hold it frm lettin ur boobs show…the shawl kinda thing guys carry in winters…the gypsy skirts...the kinda long delhi cp kinda skirts u see firang hippies wearing coupled usually wid a noodle strap
Me: yeah tht i kno
anything else left?
RockStar: no u jst acquired urself a mini diploma in womens fashion…not many straight guys can boast of tht…congrats
Me: thanks...not many straight guys like women like i do :P and no i didnt mean that in a dirty sense :P…jst...one of the most amazing pieces crafted by god :)…somebody stop the uncle in me :D ok dirty sense...i meant in the dirty sense :P
RockStar: :P

Cute Little Love Stories - 7 : The hotness

Cute Little Love Stories - 6

Cute Little Love Stories - 5

Cute Little Love Stories - 4

Cute Little Love Stories - 3

Cute Little Love Stories - 2

Cute Little Love Stories - 1

"ae agar main kabhi tujhse kuch chupaai toh"

(girl: "hey if someday i hide something from you")

"koi na...fatka padega...jor ka...dhuey pe...laalo laal"

(guy: "aah no worries, u gonna get one solid spanking on your bum, red hot one")

"sachchi!!!" (really!!!) she said in her half haughty, half naughty semi questioning tone

He looked at her, and saw a glint creeping into her eyes

"chal tharku!!! aankhein tak chamak rahee hai" (haah horny one, even your eyes are gleaming)

she blushed her way into his arms...and the two of them onto the rug... ;)

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while when we talk of relationships we mostly talk of the compatibility of nature, emotions...sexual compatibility, the ability to read each others signals is another important ingredient to successful relationship

jisne pehle ke post naee padhey hain...jaldi karo yaar...try and keep up :P

Conversations with God

"Dear God" the woman remarked "I'm smart, i'm fun, i'm savy, i deserve the perfect man, why haven't you sent him to me"

God looks kind of confused "but i did kiddo, but you were so busy being smart, fun and savy that on his request i had to shift him to the perfect woman"


"When" she said half shriekingly "they were all imperfect, the ones i met, where was the perfect guy you sent, and wait, how the hell am i not the perfect woman!!!" she said in enough anger to even scare god

god, in a little subtler tone after all that shrieking "ahem, mind your language please, after all, it is god you are talking too. Kiddo even i'm not perfect, all over history people question God, Why did Ram leave Sita, why did Gandhi call of quit India, Was Jesus really born out of a virgin?; there's no end to finding faults, even with God. The perfect woman...is perfect because she loved the imperfections of the perfect guy

"Damn, so will i never find happiness"

"You're talking to god, shouldn't be that difficult, maybe you just haven't given it enough thought"



She woke up a while later and looked at her lab...had she been talking to her dog? no no just a dream she thought




Later at another place a chap sitting under a tree having beer and peanuts "god man you're awesome, I mean only god could've known that peanuts are the best thing to go with beer, I mean like wow"

God: "you kno its tuff to hardsell you to these women as the perfect man if you keep talking like this, ok now throw some pretzels my side"

Tossing a few peanuts that way "Oh chill man don't have to hardsell me and all, btw thats another awesome piece of work of yours, funny they are in some ways, but they're good, especially the ones that don't nag so much, they are the best, awesome creatures man, here's a toast to them"

Ofcourse the man saw nothing wierd in talking to his dog, he was drunk, thats what you were supposed to do when you were drunk

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Ok this post wasn't about the girl or the guy or the stupid 5th class debate :P but have you ever wondered the dog is supposed to be the man's best friend, all civilizations across all time periods have had dogs...surprisingly and i may be wrong on this none of the civilizations have portrayed dog as a religious symbol, no god has ever been associated with a dog. I think its not by chance, its like a secret agreement, keep the focus away from the dog...but i think one of the members of the secret committee decided to be little benevolent on mankind...after all why else would they have spelt out the name in english as DOG || GOD...

if you don't believe me...just look into a dog's eyes

Cute Little Love Stories - 6

Cute Little Love Stories - 1

Cute Little Love Stories - 2

Cute Little Love Stories - 3

Cute Little Love Stories - 4

Cute Little Love Stories - 5

"Tu aajkal likhta naee hai"

"Tu aajkal padti jo naee hai"

"Tujhe pata hai naa aajkal busy chal raha hai mera"

"To jab tu free ho jaaegi tab likhoonga"

"Tu kya sirf mere liye likhta hai"

"baaki koi reader god (lap) mein baith kar comment naee deta na" he said with a wink

"haan woh bhi hai" she said, from her comfortable position in his lap. He knew how to make her feel special and that is all that mattered, all that she needed to drive away the tiredness of her job

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ok guys awesome weather these days in delhi...early morning driving through the fog on the DND is like driving through clouds...stuff romantic scenes in real life are made off...so those of you who are a couple...hope you are making the best of the season...take a weekday off on the foggiest day...drive around on the DND...come back home have pakodas...and go back to sleep :P

Cute Little Love Stories are a series i started based on a fledgling romance that plausibly started last year but never took off. These are the conversations that happen perhaps in another timezone another lifetime...but i hope you journey along with these characters, they are very much real, even if their romance is imaginary :)

The test of extremes

Ok so since i have vowed (and broken the vow like within the first week of new year) to not give gyan any longer...

I shall help you to make your own #gyan ( i know, i can see you going for that tomato that seems to have lost all its shape, so hold it right there bugger :P)

Theories of life, are best tested i believe at the extremes...

i'll try give you one example and like always leave thins unclear :P

Q1 Whom do you think of during the times when you're in most pain....

Q2 Now how much attention have you given this person in the last three days....

Q3 If you feel you haven't given enough attention, what were you so busy doing...

Q4 That one thing that kept you busy, when you are at your death bed would you feel it was worth it, worth all the sacrifices...

I don't have to tell you what to do with the answers or how to form more questions...