Anyways so to its quite difficult to choose a partner, not just through the arranged route but even when you are in a relationship.
And its pretty difficult to reason out stuff, sometimes the looks may be good but the compatibility isn't there, sometimes the person is nice but hell your tastes don't match; so many contra-indications are there that they can drive you mad.
So there's a simpler way to get to a yes / no and i'd like your feedback on it, and no not a logical one
, but one based on your experience...So the hypothesis is...If we ask ourselves "Do i want to wake up next to this person every day for the next 40 years of my life" and we don't get a comfortable yes, then its probably a no.And like i said, don't rationale it out, ask yourself the question and lemme kno if it works
