Saturday, November 20, 2010

The vindictive judge

We are often very wary of people judging us, our thoughts and actions. I've heard this all to often from a lot of people. Recently i've begun to wonder whether it's really the world we are afraid off? or somewhere deep within it is we judging ourselves and pointing fingers at the world.

This isn't a long post, it doesn't even have examples or pictures, not even formatted text...just a thought...have you been judging yourself...

8 comments :

Americanising Desi said...

Those who are quick to judge, without considering all the facts, often make serious and irreversible mistakes. More often than not, hasty judgments lead to trouble, alienation, anger, frustration and regret.

Barbie Jones said...

You hit the nail on the head AD.

the feeling lioness said...

nice introspection

Luscious Sealed Lips said...

There are three kinds of people. One who really dont care about being judged. One who only care about judging and third hangs in between.

I hang on that rope almost reaching the first group.

I guess we are all brought up to see blacks and whites, but what we learn as we grow is there are more shades, but to break from your childhood lesson may not be easy. Hence we may not be judging someone else all the time, we definitely keep a tab on what we do and how the world will look at us. It is all about the need for acceptance. And sometimes for the love of the ones already in your life. No action or thought can or should ever be justified or explained. Simple.

Kisses.

sanely insane said...

@AD...true that...especially if they judge themselves

@Barbie Jones: :)

@The feeling lioness: thanks..watz your blog link?

@LSL well summed up

Scribbling Girl said...

thought provoking post indeed :)
I agreed to what LSL said even i fall into the first category somehow and am glad i am because i used to be one who used to be the second type for long........takes a lot to achieve dont care status.....once in college someone told me y do ppl generally see either + or - and no zero and after that i love seeing zero before deciding the + or - of it......i do believe ppl who get affected r ones who r judging themselves and arent sure of themselves.

Thousif Raza said...

hmmm cool thought... :)



take care and keep writing..........

Sparkling said...

Is that even a question? :)